For married couples
Couples Communication Coaching
One-on-one joint sessions with Deseree, focused specifically on how you and your spouse communicate. This isn’t talk therapy or general marriage counseling. It’s practical, structured work on the patterns getting in the way.
What It’s Built On
Our approach combines nervous-system-informed coaching with communication research on what separates relationships that last from those that don’t.
It’s the same foundation behind our other coaching services, applied specifically to how you and your spouse talk to each other. It’s grounded in our shared faith and view of marriage rather than generic secular relationship advice.
Most couples find the work covers similar ground:
Noticing when a conversation can’t go anywhere
You learn to recognize when one of you is too flooded, tired, or overwhelmed, and what to do about it.
Structure for hard conversations
You get a real way to have them without escalating or shutting down.
Seeing the bigger pattern
You start to see how older hurts and habits, not just the argument in front of you, shape the way you react to each other.
Two Ways This Works
Alongside individual coaching
If you’re already working with one of our coaches, Deseree’s sessions focus purely on communication between you and your spouse.
On its own
You don’t need to already be a client. Couples can start directly with Deseree.
Who This Is For
Couples who love each other but keep having the same arguments, or who’ve grown distant and want to feel like a team again.
It’s also where many couples do the work of rebuilding trust after a betrayal. Learning to feel safe with each other again takes time and intention, and that process benefits from the same structure and tools.
Wherever you’re starting from, this isn’t about assigning blame. It’s about learning to recognize what’s actually happening between you in the moment, and building a shared way of working through it.
We’re coaches, not therapists. Nobody on our team holds a clinical license, and this isn’t crisis intervention.
What to Expect
Sessions are joint, with both of you and Deseree together. They run over video, so you can do them from home.
In sessions, you’ll work on:
- Understanding what pulls each of you into shutdown or escalation
- Simple check-ins to gauge whether it’s the right moment for a hard conversation
- Structured tools for having those conversations without spiraling into conflict
- Noticing the longer-standing patterns, the old hurts and old habits, that show up in the same disagreements again and again
You’ll also get short exercises to work through together between sessions, so the changes carry into everyday life rather than staying confined to the session itself.
Length varies a lot by couple. Some see meaningful change in 2-4 sessions, others work with Deseree over 8+ weeks, depending on your goals and where you’re starting from.
Pricing
$145 per session
Joint sessions with both of you and Deseree, by video.